I've been too self-critical
This was one of the negative Humanity cards I received in the beginning. I think this is related to my first point and both points mean that I don't love myself enough.
I thought my self-love improved a while ago, but I think it got worse in the midst of adjusting to the huge recent transition in my life.
Working on self-love does not come easy for me. I can get lost in hammering myself and then the people around me, so this needs to be a constant conscious effort on my part.