Sara also describes how our kids develop at the various age groups and what kind of psychic abilities might start to emerge and how they will react to them. She emphasizes that we, as their parents need to behave as their parents and guide them along even though they may be incredibly psychic or are way more spiritually advanced than us. It's our job to teach them the ways of living our earth lives, let them know that their skills are valuable without worshipping them, and most importantly, love them. Children are innately selfish. Babies are born with strong survival instincts so they can ensure their survival. They need to know that they are loved, then they will learn to love, to share, to serve others.